It's funny that someone called me on it,

You are right. I should have made no other plans this weekend. I should have made sure all our transportation and clothing stuff was well done prior to our departure timeline, so that everything was well done in advance of Kim's shower, etc., etc.

But I didn't.

I am trying not to stress so much about every little aspect of my life. So what if the dishes stay in the sink overnight? No big deal. So what if the laundry piles up (hate it!!). It won't kill me if it doesn't get done. I was thinking about this while I was completely freaking out at the mall on Saturday. Everyone else seemed to be having a grand old time, and I was really incredibly pissed off. All my chores were done, and I expected to be out playing in the sunshine, not stuck in a mall with a bunch of grumpy people doing boring things like spending money! I wanted to go play frisbee and run around! :-)